Alex Rodriguez Is “Shocked” By Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck’s Reunion and Told J.Lo “He’s Upset” Alex Rodriguez is “shocked” by Jennifer Lopez rekindling her relationship with Ben Affleck. Rodriguez has been trying desperately to reach out to Lopez but she refuses to meet and has been very short with him. According to Page Six, Jennifer and Ben went to Montana to attend a party together and Affleck has been spotted coming and going from Lopez’s Los Angeles mansion several times. “They are friends…they’ve never not been,” an insider told Page Six. “She’s not interested in rekindling anything with A-Rod and is done,” the insider said. Do you think Jennifer and Ben will actually rekindle their romantic relationship?